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INTJ

What is an INTJ Personality Type
(The Intellectual)?
People with an INTJ personality type tend to be confident, analytical, and ambitious in their behavior. They love to pursue knowledge and tend to be very logically minded. They are independent thinkers focused on solving the world’s problems.

ESFP

What is an ESFP Personality Type
(The Entertainer)?
People with an ESFP personality type tend to be friendly, opportunistic, and supportive in their behavior. They usually go with the flow of things. They love parties and are often the center of attention.

Communication

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Communication

How can INTJ and ESFP types communicate effectively with each other?

INTJs prefer to base decisions on logical thinking, keep to themselves, focus on the big picture, and follow plans, while ESFPs enjoy spending time around others, focusing on details, considering the emotions of others, and making last minute plans. INTJs should avoid being overly critical of ESFPs or pushing them to adhere to strict plans. ESFPs should offer space to INTJs and avoid being overly emotional when discussing an issue with them.


Resolving Conflict

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Conflict

How can INTJ and ESFP types resolve conflict?

INTJs prefer to consider logical arguments, while ESFPs tend to focus on the emotional impact of a situation. INTJs should be conscious of ESFPs’ need to express their emotions by listening intently, while ESFPs should recognize INTJs’ desire to consider rational reasoning by avoiding being overly emotional. Both personalities should be patient with one another and careful to find a balance between the two different ways of processing conflict.


Building Trust

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Trust

How can INTJ and ESFP types build trust?

INTJs are likely to trust ESFPs who honor their commitments and set goals; ESFPs should be consistent in their relationships with INTJs.

ESFPs tend to trust INTJs who take the time to be more emotionally open; ESFPs will feel more connected to INTJs who are vulnerable and receptive to others’ ideas.

Working Together

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Working Together

How can INTJ and ESFP types work together?

INTJs bring creative, fact-based problem-solving to a workplace, while ESFPs bring high-levels of energy, adaptability, and empathy. INTJs can help ESFPs work through difficult problems, while ESFPs can help INTJs learn to be patient and considerate.


Dealing with Change

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Change

How can INTJ and ESFP types deal with change?

INTJs may have a difficult time adapting to a new situation, as they to view change as an interruption to their plans. ESFPs tend to enjoy new experiences and adapt to change easily. ESFPs should help INTJs consider the positive aspects of change.


Managing Stress

INTJ and ESFP types need to seek to understand what brings stress to the other type and should try to avoid causing it when possible.

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Managing Stress

INTJ types are easily stressed by...

  • Spending their time around others
  • Failing to achieve a goal
  • Focusing closely on specifics
  • Opening up emotionally around others
Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Managing Stress

ESFP types are easily stressed by...

  • Pointless routines or tasks
  • Uneventful points in their social lives
  • Disapproval or rejection from others
  • Overly analytical or fact-based jobs

INTJs should avoid being overly critical or harsh to ESFPs, while ESFPs should give INTJs plenty of space to recharge.


Encouraging and Motivating

INTJ and ESFP types can encourage and motivate each other in their personal and professional lives.

Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Motivations

INTJ types are motivated by...

  • Accomplishing goals on their own
  • Making beneficial contributions to their workplace
  • Finding creative solutions to difficult problems
  • Taking time to themselves to reflect
Myers-Briggs INTJ & ESFP Motivations

ESFP types are motivated by...

  • Building connections with others
  • Concerts, parties, and other large groups of people
  • Beautiful spaces and art pieces
  • Entertaining those around them

INTJs can motivate ESFPs by allowing them to be honest about how they’re feeling.

ESFPs can encourage INTJs by communicating with reason and allowing them to take space when needed.


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